Life can be a grind and there are no two ways about it. There are days when you tend to be as exciting as – excuse the pun – watching paint dry.
Out of all the things that monotony screws up, sex is the saddest one. After all, we humans, after food, live for sex. Boredom can really take your performance down and beat all the sizzle out. So, the only possible salvation remains a good holiday – all away from the routine hustle – to indulge in a rush of passion and recharge your sex life.
If you’re also knocked down by life’s tireless monotony and planning on a holiday with your partner, we’ve something really exciting to talk about. Since holidays give you a plenty of time to try out new stuff and experiment, we’ve got 7 things you can do to spice up your sex life while on a break.
So, hold on fellas, as there’s a lot of fun packing inside. You’ll thank us later.
If you’re unfamiliar with the idea, skinny-dipping is about swimming naked and is tremendous fun off the charts. If you’ve booked a private villa or a beach house, it’s a perfect idea to get sensuous, seductive and steaming hot in the waters. This will evoke such deep fantasies and intense feelings that who knows, you almost spontaneously orgasm right there at the first touch.
Sex requires you to get naked. Then, why shouldn’t it be done with a little more fun? The rule is – each time your partner loses, he/she has to strip off an item of his/her clothing. For instance, ask if your partner knows whether a tomato is a fruit or a vegetable. If he answers right, move to the next question. If not, he has to pull down a piece of whatever he’s wearing. Continue till you both get naked eventually. Strip Tease is an incredibly exciting game that multiplies the charm of intimacy and makes you give in to temptation.
There’s a whole range of sex toys available in the market that are pretty impressive and work like a dope. They offer you smooth sensations, which culminate as mind-blowing orgasms and make sex even more desirable. From vibrators to dildos, and from bondage to anal toys, you can get all in your bed to take things up a notch. For him, keep a pack of your favorite condoms ready, sex position cards, ball rings, or boxer shorts. For her, bring a good vibrator for clitoral stimulation, or a dildo for deeper penetration. It could be a little odd and bizarre initially, but believe us, if given a try, this will be your best experience ever.
How about some sugars spicing up your sex life? We think, it’s a rocket idea to bring sugar treats and chocolates and feed them to each other, which can eventually turn on some steam between the sheets. Just in case, you’ve a thing for a racy romp, you can just pour melted chocolate on your partner and lick that all for a tickling sensation. This will be so titillating, we bet, that he/she wouldn’t be able to resist the heightened pleasure and grab you for a completely out-of-the-moment session. Besides this, some cookies and roasted chestnuts will also do the trick.
Porn, my fellow human, is incredibly overrated and sometimes borderline grody. Forget orgasm, you might come out feeling sick to the stomach watching a few. So, try avoiding that on a holiday and explore a movie genre, called erotica to fix your lackluster life. The best part is – everything about sex in these movies looks hot, comfy, and most importantly, doable. While 50 Shades of Grey is superglobal and everybody’s go-to sex flick, you can tune in some other nice, arousing movies, like 9 Songs, Blue is the Warmest Color, Killing Me Softly, and Little Children, to turn your partner on. Pro Tip: if you’re watching Little Children, just fast-forward the movie to the washing machine sex scene between Kate Winslet and Patrick Wilson. There’s a lot of oomph and wilderness there.
Nothing’s as beautiful for your partner as seeing you donning a sexy dress with a bold confidence and a dominant attitude. Slip into a sheer nighty, a cowgirl dress, or a Santa attire to tickle his fantasies and make him drool for you. However, don’t forget to keep it as sophisticated as possible. A high-handed, risque approach can flip a situation and might shock your partner. As a note, keep your ‘real’ self intact.
Blindfold is exciting for a reason that it triggers a whirlpool of thoughts about what’s coming up ahead, and channelizes a racing passion. If you’re looking for the kind of pleasure you lose your mind over, the blindfold game is a sure deal. All you need is a blindfold, a spoon, and a bucket of ice-cream. Your partner, as you blindfold him, has to feed you a spoon of ice-cream. If it spills over him, you’ve to lick it off. If over you, he has to lick it off. Believe us, you’ll go giggly each time your partner gives you a tongue touch in different places. You’ll surely fall weak in the knees.
Here are the 7 naughty things you can try out with your partner on a holiday. What do you think about them? Let us know in the comment section below.